test: reorder asserts arguments

Revert arguments for assert and ensure that the first
argument is always the actual value being tested.

PR-URL: nodejs#23534
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>

Author: frony

test/pummel/test-net-pause.js

@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ server.on('listening', function() {
   setTimeout(function() {
     chars_recved = recv.length;
     console.log(`pause at: ${chars_recved}`);
-    assert.strictEqual(true, chars_recved > 1);
+    assert.strictEqual(chars_recved > 1, true);
     client.pause();
     setTimeout(function() {
       console.log(`resume at: ${chars_recved}`);
@@ -86,6 +86,6 @@ server.on('listening', function() {
 server.listen(common.PORT);
 
 process.on('exit', function() {
-  assert.strictEqual(N, recv.length);
+  assert.strictEqual(recv.length, N);
   console.error('Exit');
 });