deps: disable trap handler for Windows cross-compiler

`handler-outside-simulator.cc` uses inline assembly, which is not
supported by MSVC.

PR-URL: #40488
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

Author: targos

common.gypi

@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@
 
     # Reset this number to 0 on major V8 upgrades.
     # Increment by one for each non-official patch applied to deps/v8.
-    'v8_embedder_string': '-node.3',
+    'v8_embedder_string': '-node.4',
 
     ##### V8 defaults for Node.js #####
 

deps/v8/src/trap-handler/trap-handler.h

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ namespace trap_handler {
 #define V8_TRAP_HANDLER_SUPPORTED true
 // Arm64 simulator on x64 on Linux, Mac, or Windows.
 #elif V8_TARGET_ARCH_ARM64 && V8_HOST_ARCH_X64 && \
-    (V8_OS_LINUX || V8_OS_DARWIN || V8_OS_WIN)
+    (V8_OS_LINUX || V8_OS_DARWIN)
 #define V8_TRAP_HANDLER_VIA_SIMULATOR
 #define V8_TRAP_HANDLER_SUPPORTED true
 // Everything else is unsupported.