allow ember-glimmer tests to run w/o jquery

[ro0gr]

part of #16058

there are two notable changes:

• fixed bug with event bubbling in the non-jquery event-dispatcher + action handler. This bug was detected by this test in no-jquery mode.
  The problem was that we stopped event bubbling once we found the first action handler caused action handler always returned false despite the bubbles argument.
• an assertion for jquery availability was added to the ViewSupport.$(). The assertion message is the following: "You cannot access this.$() with jQuery disabled". I'm glad to improve wording here.

[ro0gr]

according to browserstack there is a remaining failing test on IE "triggers focus-in when focused". Looking into it

[rwjblue]

We should address that test, it only fails sporadically.

[rwjblue]

Thank you!