Improve error message for failed language server install

[aeschright]

Fixes #578

[aeschright]

That top error message isn't that helpful to users, so I made another change to catch and report it, letting the extension still be activated. Now all they'll see is this:

[radeksimko]

LGTM, thank you 🚢

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