fix(hmr): should reload, if some files outside the module graph are changed

[TrickyPi]

Description

closes: #7024

Additional context

test already exists? https://github.com/vitejs/vite/blob/main/playground/hmr/__tests__/hmr.spec.ts#L216

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[TrickyPi]

Default reloading doesn't seem to be compatible with custom HMR update handling when some files outside of the module graph are changed.

[sapphi-red]

Closing as #9723 superseded this.